
Single for Valentine’s Day? Don’t fret. Forgo the expensive restaurants, the frivolous diamonds, and calorie-heavy chocolate… or don’t, and just reap all of it for yourself. For those of us single folks, never is there more of an opportune time to practice self-love than Valentine’s Day.
Thankfully in Houston, there are plenty of exciting adventures await for you to fly solo. Without further ado, here are the best solo date ideas in Houston for singles.
1-2. Marvel at the Museum

You might be alone (and that’s okay) but if you’re looking for company, you can’t do much better than surrounding yourself with some of the greatest artists across the millennia.
- Marvel at the works of Picasso, Bosch, Monet, and more at the Houston Museum of Fine Arts.
- The Menil Collection is one of Houston’s best kept secrets. Stop in for a spell at this free museum in Montrose and check out its surreal, modern, and medieval pieces. Before or after, grab some shade at the adjacent Menil Park.
3-4. Cozy up in a Library

Running with the theme of “who needs people when you have art”, drop in to one of Houston’s outstanding libraries and get lost in the literary worlds of your choosing.
- The Julia Ideson Library is a historical public library adorned with elegant architecture, chandeliers, vibrant murals, and a magnificent domed ceiling.
- Situated on CEO and lawyer Mark Lanier’s expansive 35-acre estate, the Lanier Theological Library spans 17,000 square feet and offers numerous nooks and crannies for comfortable studying, research, or immersing oneself in its collection of 100,000 volumes.
5. Go to a Candlelight Concert
Immerse yourself in the serenity of classical music in a sea of candles at Candlelight Concert. From award-winning film compositions, to string renditions of Taylor Swift hits, Candlelight offers something for everyone in Houston’s most iconic venues.
6. James Turrell’s Twilight Epiphany Escape

See the sky in entirely new colors. The Twilight Epiphany Escape by James Turrell employs LED lights to cast a tranquil sequence of colors onto the ceiling, enhancing the portal’s perimeter. Despite its simple design, the color sequence aligns seamlessly with the natural elements of light, time, and motion, creating a display of exquisite beauty.
7. Rothko Chapel

Nestled in the Montrose neighborhood, just beyond the shaded lawn of the Menil Collection, lies the serene and humble Rothko Chapel. Established in 1971, the chapel stands as a contemporary icon and peaceful refuge.
As you step inside, a profound tranquility permeates the space, creating a meditative atmosphere for visitors to contemplate the 14 Rothko murals that grace its walls.
8. Go See a Movie

Anyone’s who’s ever failed to convince their friends to go see that strange new A24 film knows that there is no shame in going to a movie theater alone. Whether you want a luxurious experience or enjoy a screening at a classic AMC, you can’t go wrong with a solo date in Houston at a movie – unless you’re seeing Winnie-the-Pooh: Blood and Honey, in which case, that’s on you…
9. Sip Tea inside a Buddhist Sanctuary

Find peace at theThe Water Drop Teahouse, one of the most distinctive dining establishments in the Houston region. Located within the captivating Fo Guang Shan Chung Mei Temple in the Missouri City vicinity, this teahouse provides an enchanting setting for lunch, tea, and leisure.
10-12. Take a Walk

Discover Houston the old fashioned way: on foot. Despite what you may think, there are actually places in Houston where you can walk, be them parks, hikes, or great stretches of pedestrian-accessible retail.
- Houston might be an urban jungle vibe, but there are verdant oases scattered throughout in the form of parks, trails, and gardens. Explore these beautiful Houston gardens to uncover the city’s hidden pockets of Eden this season.
- Channel the likes of Emerson, Muir, and Thoreau at the best hiking trails in and around Houston.
- Stroll in Houston’s most pedestrian-friendly areas, where you’ll discover a variety of shops, restaurants, bars, and more!
13. Sift through Records, also Cocktails

Located at 416 Main Street, Off The Record is a hidden speakeasy nestled behind a vinyl shop. Here, you find the (many) records missing from your collection. Thereafter, you can relax on plush crushed velvet couches, savor music-inspired cocktails, and immerse yourself in the tunes curated by resident DJs.
14-17. Re-up on Coffee

If there’s anywhere in Houston that’s more acceptable to be alone it’s at a coffee shop. Whether reading, studying, working, or simply enjoying a cup of cold brew, a coffee house makes for a perfect solo date in Houston.
- With two outposts in Houston, Eden Plant Co. provides a welcoming and well-oxygenated setting where you can enjoy a cup of coffee and expand your collection of plants.
- The Coffee House at West End is a three-story coffee shop renowned for its excellent coffee. The inviting interior boasts warm elements like wood, exposed brick, and leather furniture. Additionally, the rooftop offers breathtaking views of the Houston skyline, providing a stunning backdrop for patrons to enjoy.
- Whether you’re riding a motorcycle, sporting a leather jacket, or simply in need of caffeine, make sure to swing by Wolfsmiths Coffee, a fully operational motorcycle repair shop and cafe.
18. Go Thrifting

Jazz up your wardrobe at the best thrift stores in town. In Houston, there are numerous thrift stores offering pre-loved items that can elevate your wardrobe without straining your budget.
19-20. Saunter through a Market

Load up on produce, homespun dishes, and experience the atmosphere of these vibrant markets in Houston.
- Sunny Flea Market boasts numerous vendors offering a diverse array of items, ranging from inexpensive clothing, makeup, and trinkets to birds and baby turtles. Surprisingly, you may even encounter a couple of dinosaurs. However, beyond the novelty items and cheap electronics, this extensive market is a haven for those seeking low-cost, authentic, and delicious food.
- Operating every day of the year, Azteca Farmers Market stands as one of Houston’s top-notch farmers markets. Boasting exceptional street food, fresh produce, and a diverse array of over 50 vendors, Azteca offers visitors a sprawling 13-acre space filled with vibrant market offerings.
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